All the jargon you need to know to understand escort sites!
Navigating escort sites or adult forums can be confusing if you’re not familiar with the unique slang and acronyms used. Whether you’re new or just need a refresher, this glossary breaks down all the essential terms-from “A-Level” to “OWO” to “Threesome”-so you can browse with confidence and clarity. Here’s a comprehensive list of the most common sexual terms and abbreviations you’ll encounter, each explained in plain language.
A-Level (Anal Sex)
Penetrative anal intercourse.
Anal Rimming (Licking Anus)
Oral stimulation of the anus; also called “rimming” or “anilingus.”
Anon
Short for “anonymous,” indicating a preference for minimal personal information exchange before sexual encounters.
BB (Bareback) ⚠️⛔️
Penetrative sex without a condom.
Bator
Someone who enjoys solo masturbation, often as a focused kink.
Butt Plug
A sex toy designed for anal insertion with a flared base for safety.
CB (Cock and Ball Torture)
A BDSM practice involving inflicting pain or discomfort to the penis and testicles.
CIM (Cum in Mouth)
Ejaculating into a partner’s mouth during oral sex.
COF (Cum on Face)
Ejaculating onto a partner’s face.
COB (Cum on Body)
Ejaculating onto a partner’s body (anywhere other than inside or on the face).
Couples
Services or activities involving two people in a romantic or sexual relationship, or encounters with multiple people.
Cruising
Looking for sexual partners, often in public or semi-public spaces.
Cunnilingus
Oral stimulation of the clitoris, vulva, and vagina.
Cut
Slang for circumcised.
DFK (Deep French Kissing)
Passionate kissing with tongues; more intense than a simple kiss.
Doggie Style
A sexual position where one partner penetrates the other from behind.
Domination
A sexual dynamic where one partner takes a dominant, controlling role over the other (can include BDSM elements).
DATY (Dining At The Y)
Slang for cunnilingus, or oral stimulation of the vulva.
Erotic Massage
A massage that includes sexual or sensual touch, often leading to or including sexual activity.
Extraball (Having Sex Multiple Times)
Engaging in sexual intercourse more than once in a single session or meeting.
Foot Fetish
Sexual attraction to feet, often involving touching, kissing, or worshipping feet.
GFE – Girlfriend Experience (Check out full article on GFE here!)
A type of service or encounter that mimics the intimacy, affection, and companionship of a romantic relationship.
Golden Shower
A sexual activity involving urination on a partner for erotic pleasure.
JO (Jerk Off)
Masturbation, either solo or mutual.
Lingerie
Interest in wearing or seeing others wear feminine undergarments for sexual arousal.
LT (Long Time; Usually Overnight)
Extended encounters, typically lasting several hours or overnight.
Masc
Refers to a masculine appearance or mannerisms, often used in dating and hookup contexts.
Monogamy
A relationship style involving sexual and romantic exclusivity with one partner.
NSA (No Strings Attached)
Sex without expectation of a romantic relationship or future commitment.
O-Level (Oral Sex)
Sexual activity involving oral stimulation of the genitals.
Oral
Sexual activity involving stimulation of the genitals with the mouth.
OWO (Oral Without Condom)
Oral sex performed without the use of a condom.
PSE – Pornstar Experience (Check out full article on PSE here!)
A type of service or encounter that includes more explicit, adventurous, or “hardcore” activities-similar to what is seen in professional adult films. This may include acts like deep throat, rough sex, dirty talk, and multiple positions.
Rubber
Refers to a preference for rubber or latex clothing and accessories, sometimes also used as slang for condoms.
Sex Toys
Objects or devices used to enhance sexual pleasure, such as vibrators, dildos, or anal beads.
Striptease/Lapdance
A sensual dance where one person undresses slowly and seductively, sometimes performed on a partner’s lap.
Swallow
Swallowing semen after oral sex.
Threesome
Sexual activity involving three people at the same time.
69 (Sixty-Nine Sex Position)
A sexual position where two partners perform oral sex on each other simultaneously, typically lying head-to-toe.
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