We believe great chemistry starts with great etiquette. Over the years we’ve distilled our experience into ten simple rules we follow every time. They keep things safe, smooth, and genuinely enjoyable for everyone involved.
Our 10 Rules
1) Confirm details in writing—and arrive on time
One clear message prevents 90% of mishaps. Lock in city, date, start time, duration, rate, deposit, balance timing, and venue plan.
Copy/paste: “Confirming [Date] [Time] for [Duration] in [City]. Deposit [€X/% via Method] received; balance at the start. Venue [Hotel/Restaurant]. I’ll message on arrival for details.”
2) Respect boundaries—ours and theirs—without exception
Use neutral language (“time & companionship”) and ask before any touch. A “no” is a complete sentence and should be honored immediately.
Copy/paste: “If anything’s unclear, please let me know—happy to follow your comfort level.”
3) Value discretion: phones on silent, no name-dropping
Silence/away the phone, avoid photos or recordings, and never share personal details or names. In lobbies and elevators, keep conversation neutral.
4) Handle screening gracefully—don’t push back
Screening protects everyone. Provide what’s requested (references or a light professional check) and keep it concise.
Copy/paste: “Happy to screen—[two references] or [LinkedIn/company site] works. I understand details are private and used only for safety.”
5) Keep communication clear, polite, and direct
Great messages are 3–6 lines: city, date, time, duration, and willingness to screen. Avoid explicit language and avoid haggling.
Tip: Respect reply windows; one polite follow-up after 24–48h is fine.
6) Settle fees privately and respectfully
Balance is usually settled at the start. If cash, use a discreet envelope. If bank/crypto, confirm the method, token, and network in advance (e.g., USDC on Polygon).
- Independent: Deposit first, balance at start.
- Agency: Booker may process payment; ask about gratuities.
- Club VIP rooms: Room fee + entertainer fee; tipping handled separately.
7) Tip when service exceeds expectations
Tipping is context-dependent but appreciated for standout experiences.
- Independent: Optional—consider 10–20% for exceptional time.
- Agencies / Clubs: Often customary. 15–25% is common in private rooms.
8) Keep plans flexible but defined—no awkward drift
Be open to minor shifts (traffic, table times) while keeping the duration and end time clear. Ask before extending and settle extensions immediately.
Copy/paste: “Could we add [30m/1h]? Happy to settle the extension now.”
9) Prioritize safety—and trust your instincts
Red flags: no clear rates or policies, pressure for prohibited extras, or unusual payment requests without confirmation. If something feels off, step back politely.
Exit line: “Thank you for your time—this won’t be the right fit for me.”
10) Follow up with a simple thank-you
Close the loop and make rebooking easy.
Copy/paste: “Thank you for tonight—professional, relaxed, and enjoyable. If your schedule allows, I’d love [Duration] on [Date window].”
Pocket Checklist
✔ Read the site/profile first (rates, policies, screening)
✔ Confirm city / date / time / duration / venue / payment
✔ Neutral language; no explicit wording
✔ Phone on silent; no photos or recordings
✔ Balance at the start; discreet, respectful hand-off
✔ Tip for exceptional experiences
✔ Thank-you message within 12–24 hours
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