Gentlemens Guide to booking via Text
Good texts get good results. Below are copy-paste messages clients actually send—polite, brief, and clear. Pick the one that fits, fill in the brackets, and send without the awkwardness.
How to format a great first message
- Signal respect: Use full sentences, no explicit language.
- Share logistics: City, date, start time, duration.
- Keep it short: 3–6 lines is perfect.
Independent companion — rates listed
Copy/paste:
“Hello [Name], I’ve read your rate page. I’m in [City] on [Date] around [Time] and would like [Duration]. Could you share your preferred screening and deposit steps? Thank you.”
Independent companion — rates not listed
Copy/paste:
“Hello [Name], visiting [City] on [Date]. I’m looking for a respectful, non-explicit [Duration]. May I confirm your time & companionship rate and deposit policy? Happy to complete screening.”
Agency
Copy/paste:
“Hello [Agency], considering [Model Name] for [Duration] on [Date] at [Time] in [City]. Please confirm the rate, screening, deposit, and payment method. Thank you.”
Gentlemen’s club (asking about private rooms)
Copy/paste:
“Hello [Club], visiting on [Date]. Do you offer private rooms or VIP? What are the rates, duration blocks, and payment options? Is tipping handled separately? Thank you.”
Screening (what to say)
Copy/paste:
“I’m happy to provide screening. I can offer [two recent references] or [professional presence/LinkedIn/company site]. I understand details are kept private and only for safety. Please let me know which you prefer.”
Deposits & payment (confirm without awkwardness)
Confirming a deposit
Copy/paste:
“Confirming [Date] [Time] for [Duration] in [City]. Deposit [€X or %] via [Method] is fine. Please share the [wallet/IBAN/link] and I’ll send now and share confirmation.”
Crypto (if offered)
Copy/paste:
“Happy to pay on-chain. Do you prefer USDC/USDT on [Network e.g., Polygon/TRON]? Please confirm the exact amount and address. I’ll send and reply with the tx hash.”
Balance at the start
Copy/paste:
“Understood—balance at the start. I’ll have it prepared discreetly. Thank you.”
Confirmation message (tie everything up)
Copy/paste:
“Great—confirming [Date] [Time], [Duration], at [Hotel/Location]. Deposit sent [screenshot/tx hash]. I’ll be on time and will message at arrival for room details. Looking forward.”
Running late, rescheduling, or canceling
If you’re running late
Copy/paste:
“I’m running [X] minutes behind—my apologies. I’ll arrive by [New Time]. If an extension or adjustment is needed, I’m happy to accommodate.”
Rescheduling (outside penalty window)
Copy/paste:
“Something has come up—could we move [Date/Time] to [New Date/Time]? I understand your policy and am happy to keep the deposit applied.”
Canceling (inside penalty window)
Copy/paste:
“I’m very sorry—I need to cancel [Date/Time]. I understand the deposit policy and appreciate your time.”
Extending time (ask neatly)
Copy/paste:
“I’m enjoying our time—would an extra [30 minutes / 1 hour] work for you? I’m happy to settle the extension now.”
Public social date etiquette (restaurants/bars)
- Keep money talk minimal in public: Confirm details beforehand; handle balances discreetly at the start.
- Host the venue: You cover the bill unless arranged otherwise. This is separate from time & companionship.
- Arrive on time: If delayed, send the “running late” text.
Clubs vs. independent vs. agency (payment basics)
- Clubs: Room fee + entertainer fee; tipping is usually separate (15–25% is common). Ask how extensions work and when the timer starts.
- Independent: Deposit first, balance at the start; envelope etiquette is appreciated if paying cash; crypto only if explicitly offered.
- Agency: Bookers often handle payment; gratuities may be separate. Confirm what’s included and any taxes/fees.
Thank-you & post-date messages
Same-night thank you
Copy/paste:
“Thank you for tonight—wonderful conversation and a smooth evening. I appreciate your time and professionalism.”
Next-day follow-up
Copy/paste:
“Just a quick note to say last night was lovely. If your schedule allows, I’d enjoy another [Duration] on [Date Window].”
Polite decline (if you won’t rebook)
Copy/paste:
“Thank you again for your time. I’ll pause on future plans for now, but I appreciate the experience—wishing you the best.”
What not to send (and what to send instead)
- Don’t: “How much for… [explicit]?”
Do: “I’m looking at [Duration] on [Date] in [City]. What are your time & companionship rates and deposit steps?” - Don’t: “Discount if I book now?”
Do: “If [Duration] isn’t available, I’m happy with [Shorter Duration].” - Don’t: “Send pics / explicit details.”
Do: “Your site looks great; no need for extra photos—thank you.”
Reply-time expectations
- Respect stated hours. Many reply within a business window and keep an urgent channel only for confirmed bookings.
- One polite follow-up after 24–48h is fine; multiple pings are not.
Quick checklist before you hit send
- ✔ Clear City / Date / Time / Duration
- ✔ Read the site/profile first
- ✔ No explicit language
- ✔ Willingness to complete screening
- ✔ Ready to send deposit (if requested)
Copy block you can save on your phone
Hello [Name], I’m in [City] on [Date] around [Time] and would like [Duration]. I’ve read your site—happy to complete screening. Please share deposit/payment steps and I’ll confirm right away. Thank you.
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