The Private Room Flow: What We Do Inside

Updated: October 2025 · Non-explicit guide; always follow local laws and house rules. 18+.

Private rooms should feel exciting—not confusing. Here’s our clear, respectful walkthrough of what really happens from the moment you say “yes” to a dance to the moment you step back into the main room. We keep it simple, safe, and enjoyable for everyone.

1) The invite & quick check

The approach: A host, floor staff, or an entertainer suggests a private room or VIP.
Mini-qualifier: You’ll hear the room type, minutes, and rate (e.g., 15 / 30 / 60).
House rules in one line: “No explicit activity; touching varies by club and jurisdiction. Ask first.”
Your move: If you’re in, confirm the time block and payment method (card/cash/crypto if supported).

Pro tip: If the price feels vague, ask: “What’s included? How many minutes? Are taxes or service charges separate?”

2) Payment & wristband (or ticket)

Front desk/host stand: You’ll prepay or open a tab. Some clubs separate a room fee from an entertainer fee.
Timer: Time usually starts when you enter the room (or when staff taps the system timer).
Receipts: Keep the stub; you’ll need it for extensions or to reconcile your tab later.

What we confirm: rate, minutes, whether gratuity is included (usually not), and where to tip—inside the room or at the end.

3) Entering the room: setting the vibe

Lights, music, temperature: Ask for low lights and a comfortable volume.
Comfort check: Sit where directed; jackets/bags on the hook or side table.
Consent chat (15 seconds):
• Entertainer: “Here’s what I’m comfortable with.”
• You: “I’ll ask before I touch. If I’m unsure, I won’t.”
No phones: Most clubs ban photos/video—keep your phone away to protect everyone’s privacy.

4) The flow inside (non-explicit)

Segmented time: Private time often runs in short mini-sets to check comfort and adjust the vibe.
Conversation: Light talk is normal; be present and polite.
Boundaries: If you’re not sure, ask: “Is this okay?” A “no” is a full sentence—respect it immediately.
Hydration: Water is common; alcohol rules vary. Don’t overdo it—intoxication can end the session.

Touch policies change by city/club. When in doubt, keep hands to yourself unless invited.

5) Time checks & extensions

Before the end: You’ll usually hear: “We’re nearly up—want to extend?”
Extending: Prepay again or the host adds it to your tab. Confirm minutes and start time of the extension.
Finishing: “Thank you, I’m wrapping here”—then prepare to tip.

6) Tipping & exit

Typical tip: 15–25% of the room fee (more for exceptional service).
Discreet hand-off: Cash is simplest; some venues allow tipping via terminal.
Leave gracefully: Compliment, thank staff, and exit together or separately per house policy.

Do / Don’t

Do:

Ask for prices upfront (room fee, entertainer fee, taxes, service).
Confirm minutes and when the timer starts.
Ask before any touch; follow the entertainer’s lead.
Tip respectfully; thank staff and entertainers by name.

Don’t:

Negotiate mid-room for disallowed services.
Record audio/video or take photos.
Pressure for personal contact details.
Stay past the timer without paying for an extension.

Helpful one-liners (zero awkwardness)

Clarity on price: “Just to confirm, it’s €X for 30 minutes, plus tax, and tips are separate—right?”
Boundary check: “Is this comfortable for you?”
Decline extension: “I had a great time—no extension for me today, thank you.”
Decline upsell: “I’ll pass this time, but I appreciate it.”

Red flags (step out politely)

No clear pricing or refusal to show a menu.
Pressure for extras the club prohibits.
Confiscating your phone or ID beyond standard tab/wristband procedure.

If you feel uneasy, end the session: “I’m going to wrap here, thank you.” Settle the bill and step out.

What changes by country/city

Touch policies (hands-off vs. limited contact).
Alcohol rules in private rooms.
Payment options (cards vs. cash vs. crypto).
Privacy norms (cameras in hallways vs. none in rooms).

Always check posted rules and respect local law.

Cost snapshot (example only)

Standard room (15–20 min): €60–€120 + tip.
VIP (30–60 min): €180–€400+ depending on city/venue.
Bottle service: Markup applies; confirm whether it extends room time (usually it doesn’t).

Your venue may differ—ask upfront.